So I'm about a month into my Enhance journey. Yesterday I had my panel server (here at my location, 1:1 NAT behind my firewall) and a VPS I purchased, and all was good.
My plan is to clean off my other hosts and migrate all my sites to Enhance. Today I cleared one off, created a new VM and tried unsuccessfully to add it to Enhance 5 times. I think I finally figured out the issue:
The Panel and another server can't be on the same private subnet. If my panel is at 192.168.x.10, setting my second local server as 192.168.x.11 fails, and the panel is stuck trying to send RPC calls to the network gateway address.
However, putting the second app server on another DMZ (also on its own 1:1 NAT, so it has its own routable IP address) finally worked.
My Problem, or non problem: in the panel after install, my new server was listed as 192.168.y.11 as its IP address. I went to the server, choose the 3-dot dropdown, selected "Server IP Address," and entered the routable IP address that's mapped to this machine, and I think this will work.
I'll do more testing tomorrow, but for now, does it look like I did this as I was supposed to?