@Rich I did a mistake. I have so many servers running that I can't keep track 😃
This website was running on a VM (Proxmox) with 8 X 7950X CPU cores. When I noticed the CPU load, I decided to give an extra 8 cores, so now it runs in 16 x 7950X CPU cores in total.
I did the change a few hours ago, and there hasn't been a freeze since then. It's too early to know for sure, but it may be that MariaDB simply could not keep up with the load of the badly written Oxy Classifieds queries. (I cannot wait to migrate from this abomination of a "script")
This has grown to be interesting thread.
Still though, there should be SOME error about it.
Weird.